Who is your Number1?

During a conversation with a gorgeous friend of mine who is currently 'seeing' someone, she said to me

" you know what Char, I just know I'm not his number1"

It really made me sad and got me thinking about friendships & relationships, men & women, the way we treat those around us.

So, who is your number1? Who do you give priority & preference to in your life?

Is it to the people who really matter?

Who do you take for granted? or carelessly string along, knowing you will never take them to that next level of commitment they desire in your life, but, you continue to keep them around?Maybe for comfort, convenience or even out of fear. Food for thought right?

For those who are in that grey and foggy area of dating, 'seeing' or 'checking' someone, where on their list of priorities do you rest?

In my past experience it's not a nice feeling when deep down you know that special someone who you would love to be exclusively yours just doesn't feel the same or they have other 'options' to explore so are not yet willing to cement your union. Before long you start to realize you are compromising yourself & your standards to remain in a situation that is in no way beneficial or pleasing to you.

I believe its all linked to how much we love & value ourselves.

If we don't respect our own body, mind & soul & have clear standards & boundaries ready and set in place, then how can we ever expect anyone else to?

Much love & blessings

Charlene .x.